Can Technology Help Us Fall in Love Faster? Maybe, But Should It?
0 Don’t you miss the days when you hit the club to find a lover, or, even better, become lovers with your childhood friend? Today, technology has changed all that and how we perceive relationships. While some argue it’s a toxic dating environment, the other side argues it’s a faster way to find the click. But is it a good thing? Read on to find out. Love’s Algorithm: A Match Made in Data Heaven? There’s no scope to deny that apps like Tinder and Bumble has entirely reshaped the relationship aspect of our lives. No more awkward conversations behind the school grounds. Now, we swipe our day away until we find someone mildly interesting. Are they really finding us our soulmates? The answer is as complicated as love. Anthropologists argue that the core of love stays the same, but these apps have changed how we express it. These days, communication has been narrowed down to the send button, and the connections are comprehensive. But then, the problem is being overwhelmed with all the choices. Everyone has been using these apps, putting a user in a paradox. Committing to one person is difficult when you find another more attractive. More options can make it easier to choose. This brings up the question – can love be sorted by an algorithm? Beyond the Algorithm: The Human Touch Still Matters Yes, technology, like connecting us with our friends and family, connects us to our lovers. But then, does it really matter if all you can do is talk? Real and meaningful connections need effort and intimacy, not video calling with someone a thousand miles away. The Ethical Dilemma of AI Love: Where Do We Draw the Line? One of the issues of depending on algorithms to fix your love life is the fear of heartbreak. These days, love has been narrowed down to physical intimacy, and the concept of “true love” is as good as it is gone. These days, situations have become a “cool trend” for many, but it’s emotionally and eventually physically damaging. Today, touch-starved people turn to AI chatbots to satisfy their needs. It’s repulsing, but it’s unfortunately the truth. Tech has changed the concept of love in some ways worse than others. But it’s up to us to use these conveniences correctly. We should prioritize genuine emotions and human connection over the adrenaline rush of scoring another date. Love is an intimate bond you’re supposed to make with the person who hits your heart right. It’s never the dates or the intimate pleasures that make love worth it, but the touch that makes it truly special.