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Can Technology Help Us Fall in Love Faster? Maybe, But Should It?

0 Don’t you miss the days when you hit the club to find a lover, or, even better, become lovers with your childhood friend? Today, technology has changed all that and how we perceive relationships. While some argue it’s a toxic dating environment, the other side argues it’s a faster way to find the click. But is it a good thing? Read on to find out. Love’s Algorithm: A Match Made in Data Heaven? There’s no scope to deny that apps like Tinder and Bumble has entirely reshaped the relationship aspect of our lives. No more awkward conversations behind the school grounds. Now, we swipe our day away until we find someone mildly interesting. Are they really finding us our soulmates? The answer is as complicated as love. Anthropologists argue that the core of love stays the same, but these apps have changed how we express it. These days, communication has been narrowed down to the send button, and the connections are comprehensive. But then, the problem is being overwhelmed with all the choices. Everyone has been using these apps, putting a user in a paradox. Committing to one person is difficult when you find another more attractive. More options can make it easier to choose. This brings up the question – can love be sorted by an algorithm? Beyond the Algorithm: The Human Touch Still Matters Yes, technology, like connecting us with our friends and family, connects us to our lovers. But then, does it really matter if all you can do is talk? Real and meaningful connections need effort and intimacy, not video calling with someone a thousand miles away. The Ethical Dilemma of AI Love: Where Do We Draw the Line? One of the issues of depending on algorithms to fix your love life is the fear of heartbreak. These days, love has been narrowed down to physical intimacy, and the concept of “true love” is as good as it is gone. These days, situations have become a “cool trend” for many, but it’s emotionally and eventually physically damaging. Today, touch-starved people turn to AI chatbots to satisfy their needs. It’s repulsing, but it’s unfortunately the truth. Tech has changed the concept of love in some ways worse than others. But it’s up to us to use these conveniences correctly. We should prioritize genuine emotions and human connection over the adrenaline rush of scoring another date. Love is an intimate bond you’re supposed to make with the person who hits your heart right. It’s never the dates or the intimate pleasures that make love worth it, but the touch that makes it truly special.

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The Science of Attraction: Colors and Styles That Will Make You Swoon

0 Let’s turn on the mood lights for today; you’re going on a date with the perfect person you’ve found, but you have no idea what to wear. Here is our advice: Stop rummaging in your already messy closet and read on to figure out how to make them fall for you; find just the right aesthetics to live in their heart and soul rent-free. Your body is the canvas, and the clothes are your paintbrushes. Here are ways to paint a picture of yourself that will drive your lover to swoon over you: Mastering the Art of Colors Sometimes it doesn’t matter what you wear, whether a casual biker outfit or a formal suit, if the colors don’t match! In this dance of love, colors are the melody, and you can’t do a waltz over heavy metal. Find your blues and jazz, experiment with colors, and do your homework. Dazzle in a kaleidoscope of hues that would help you communicate not to their ears but to their heart. Harnessing the Power of Style If colors are the melody, then the style is the chart. It’s not just about the notes but how you play them that matters. Wear some clothes that make you pop; heck, wear a leather jacket on top to seal the deal. Dress to impress. Find the tempo; determine the aesthetic. To get out of the way, style, color, and aesthetics aren’t the same. If the style is the chart, the color is the melody, then the aesthetic is the tempo. To craft a perfect piece, you must play the right notes in the right order at the right speed. What are your intentions on the date? Is it an aged wine and rotisserie chicken or an excellent coffee and sandwiches downtown kind of date? Embrace the casual: go Lo-Fi. Of course, clothes have genres, just like music. Sometimes, playing some lo-fi beats is best to chill out and go casual. Embrace wearing baggy shirts and ripped jeans. Become down-to-earth, be yourself.  Don’t be too dependent on what you’re wearing. Real talk? They love you for who you are, not what you wear. Remember the human; remember who you are beneath all those fancy blazers. That’s what your lover loves about you! Be confident in your skin. Remember, the natural beauty is inside of you. How does it matter if you wear red or pink when feeling blue? Your body is your instrument; play something soothing with your outfit. Let your soul speak for you, and create a tune that defines who you are, not what you want to be.

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Roses are Red, Violets are Blue, This Valentine’s, I Choose Me, Boo!

0 Here comes the Valentine’s week! A time when most couples rejoice and singles lament. But who said you can only celebrate love exclusively with your significant other? Expanding the definition of love is always possible by adding a dash of newness called – self-love. It’s the top contender for nurturing a deeper connection with oneself, a relationship that is the foundation for all other forms of love. So, ditch the mindset of being incapable of finding a lover and celebrate yourself for a change! Hold your horses; self-love ain’t the same as being self-centred; that’s a mistaken idea. The former is the road to complete healing. It silences our inner chaos, alleviates self-doubts, and helps us make peace with ourselves. Now, here are a few ways to celebrate self-love every day of the week: Monday: Pamper yourself with a relaxing massage. Heck, set up a DIY Spa at your home – have a relaxing bath, put on a face mask, listen to your favorite music, and lose yourself. Tuesday: Give that Bluetooth speaker a fair chance! Turn it on, and play your favourite song. Let your body, mind, and soul synch in with every tune. Acknowledge your strengths and vulnerabilities to celebrate yourself.  Wednesday: Tap into your creative knack. Creatively express yourself. Write a love letter to yourself, and put your favourite makeup on. Wear that jazzy outfit, or sing your heart out. Thursday:  Put away your phone, isolate yourself from distractions, and enjoy the quiet. Meditate, journal, or sit in the park for hours. Friday: Get all your friends and have a heart-to-heart with your family. Heck, volunteer in your community. Celebrate your non-romantic connections. Saturday: Hit the shelves and get a great book, create a cozy atmosphere, and lose yourself in the pages. (and the smell!) Sunday: Write down five things you love about yourself, and work on improving them! Find your intentions and strive for personal growth for continued self-love.

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Love Bites: Mindful Eating for a Heartfelt Valentine’s Day

0 We all know Feb 14th as the day you mindlessly shove chocolates, creamy pasta, and wine with your lover. It’s tempting to go all out on the eating aspect of your date. Although it is a time to celebrate your love with them, eating mindfully to enjoy peace is still better.  But what is “eating mindfully?” What does it mean to eat mindfully? It means to eat with your consciousness as well as your mouth. Count every bite, and be aware of what you’re consuming. After all, you are what you eat. Okay, So How Do You Eat Mindfully? Make it Personal, Make it Memorable! Don’t confuse mindful eating with depriving yourself. It’s about improving your devouring experience more healthily. When you focus on quality ingredients, relish each bite, and connect with your partner, a simple mealtime becomes a romantic experience. Let’s create more moments to cherish this Valentine’s Day instead of just munching away without thinking.

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Heartbreak & Valentine’s Day: What to do?

0 Valentine’s Day is a day when love is in the air. Lovebirds are in a euphoric state, while the broken hearts curse their exes. They find it a foul reminder of their loneliness. We know that it’s hard to deal with heartbreak, especially when everyone around you is falling head over heels celebrating love. But guess what? There is no need to feel sorry for yourself. Here’s what you can do to cope with the feelings instead: Remember, healing from heartbreak takes time. Valentine’s Day doesn’t need to be a day to sulk in the corner just because you don’t have a partner. Be gentle with yourself and trust that brighter days are ahead, even if they seem out of reach. You are worthy of love and happiness on Valentine’s Day and every day after that.

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Beyond the Box of Chocolates: Gift Experiences They’ll Never Forget!

0 It’s that time of the year again – when friends turn into lovers, lovers turn into something more, and when you need to bust out your credit card to make her happy, Valentine’s week. We all know that gifts are expensive, not to mention the standards of gifting. But, put those boxes of chocolates down for a moment and consider gifting your significant other a good time instead of a good thing. Here are ways to celebrate Valentine’s week without burning a hole through your pockets. Finding Affordable Destinations Hey, now, affordable does not mean cheap. Travelling with a light budget doesn’t mean degrading the quality of your date. Hold on momentarily and scour the internet – find out where the buzz is. Find famous tourist spots that could work as a great romantic evening. Depending on the location, you could go to a remote area, which is beautiful and very affordable. So, do your homework! Embracing the Spirit of Adventure Travelling for a date can be educational, too! By choosing a budget area, you can learn a lot about the world’s various cultures with your significant other. Instead of booking a 5-star hotel in Paris, consider hikes and explorations. From picnics to camps and exploring the people’s cultures, peacefulness can be an incredible journey. Maximizing Savings with Smart Planning Boats are maintained before being put in the water to ensure they don’t leak, so why not plan your trips before everything goes south? Take advantage of budget airlines and book hotels through platforms that give you discounts – make sure your boat doesn’t sink before it sails. Heck, cook your food with your significant other – bond over cooking with locally produced ingredients. Cherishing Simple Pleasures Maybe they want to spend time with you and don’t care where. Sure, try to ensure you have fun with your love, but remember that small gestures send the “I love you” for you. Whether it’s a homemade meal at a homestay, heck, or even stargazing on the terrace of some building, bonding also happens in these little moments. Sometimes, the small things leave the biggest mark. This Valentine’s Day, consider adopting the attitude of affordable travel and embarking on a voyage of affection and discovery with your important companion.

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Valentine’s Day 2024: Stunning Celebrity-Inspired Outfits to Impress Your Love!

0 It’s never easy to choose a strikingly perfect dress that can make your lover stare open-mouthed at you. The more elegantly you dress, the more magnetic you become! From Alia Bhatt to Janhvi Kapoor, there are stunning celebrity-inspired outfits to outshine on Valentine’s Day. So let’s dive into ideas if you’re super excited to impress your lover. Alia Bhatt’s Burgundy Gucci Playsuit  If you’re someone who prioritises comfort wearing over-flare and bouncing long outfits, this one is definitely for you. You can match it with embellished moccasin shoes like that Alia Bhatt wore to add an extra touch of elegance. Why not outshine in burgundy like a classy woman when others soak themselves in the usual red hue? From going to “dinner parties” to “picnicking” on Valentine’s Day, this playsuit is comfortably suitable for all occasions.  Kiara Advani’s Red Bodycon Outfit Kiara Advani’s romantic red bodycon dress designed by Magda Butrym is a spellbinding outfit to choose for Valentine’s day. This strapless body-hugging outfit looks glamorously fierce and feminine. Match it with red heels and lipstick like Kiara Advani to look more stylish. Let your lover’s eyes be soaked in the red hue of love!  Suhana Khan’s Dark Floral Print Dress Suhana Khan’s taste in fashion is strikingly impressive, being stylish while maintaining simplicity. And this figure-hugging black floral dress with a V neckline is perfect for date nights and partying. Just like Suhana Khan, glamming up your face with minimal makeup, like coating your lips in nude shade can make you feel free and comfortably stylish.  Vaani Kapoor’s Floral Mini Dress What could be more stunning and perfect than a red dress bathed in floral print for Valentine’s day? Grab all the attention with Vaani Kapoor ‘s elegant style. This red floral strapless dress from the shelves of Magda Butrym comes with a sweetheart neckline.  Matching with super-high thigh boots and sheer stockings will definitely make you stand out. Janhvi Kapoor’s Lace Corset Dress  Janhvi Kapoor’s latest post on Instagram in red lace corset maxi dress is currently trending for the romantic vibe it spreads. This dress from clothing brand Rasario is crafted in a seductive, body-fitting style, lace-embroidered in corset with off-shoulder and skirt in a mermaid style. For an extra touch of romance, you can glam up your face with rosy blush and deep rose pink lipstick. 

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Chocolate Fondue To Frozen Yoghurt Bark: Easy, Delectable Desserts To Try!

0 Valentine’s day is incomplete without capping off the day with a detectable dessert. Sweet treats while chit-chatting sweet words can delightfully dip your heart in love. From Chocolate Fondue to Mug Cake to Frozen Yoghurt Bark, there are easy peasy recipes for those who are lazy and noob at cooking to try. After all, whipping up a homemade dessert is an act of love. So get in your apron, and try these luscious desserts with the magical touch of your love. Chocolate Fondue It’s the easiest classic dessert to whip up and dip in love. Combine heavy cream, chocolate, sugar and butter over a low to medium heat. Stir to get it smoothly melted, and transfer the velvety chocolate to a stunning bowl or cup, along with dippers like strawberries, marshmallows etc.. Now you can feed your love to make his/her heart go pitter patter. Yoghurt Parfait Parfait is a perfect dessert to showcase your love in layers of sweetness. Take a clear glass to lusciously layer Greek yoghurt with crunchy granola and fresh fruits like strawberry, blackberry and blueberry. If you want to add an extra layer of sweetness, you can top it with  either honey or melted chocolate.   Chocolate Mug Cake It is such a delightful dessert to bake your lover’s heart as fluffy and moist as the mug cake. Combine cocoa powder, flour, sugar and milk in a mug and microwave for minutes. Before serving, don’t forget to top it with whipping cream to add an extra touch of sweetness.  Fruits and Nuts Platter This effortless dessert is for the ones who are noob at cooking. Be as creative as you want while arranging the platter with fruits and nuts. Top it with honey, maple syrup or melted chocolate or fig jam. You can even drizzle whipping cream. It’s all up to you when it comes to drizzling your partner with the sweetness of love!  Frozen Yoghurt Bark Why not make your Valentine’s day hilariously unique with this healthy, detectable dessert? All you need is yoghurt to top it with whatever is there in your refrigerator. Take a baking sheet to spread the yoghurt, drizzle nuts or crunchy granola, chocolate, the slices of strawberry and raspberry or any fruit of your choice. Let it freeze, and then break into pieces before serving to savour. 

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Haven’t Yet Found Your Love? Here’s How Singles Can Celebrate Valentine’s Day! 

0 Being single and scrolling through Instagram flooded with the exquisiteness of romantic relationships can be excruciating. But have you ever thought of the freedom and flexibility you’re enjoying? From “getting more time to yourself” to “having overall control”, singlehood is a hilariously empowering experience. Fall in love with your mere existence, and treat yourself the way you longed to be treated. Here are a few ways to celebrate this Valentine’s Day to the fullest. Treat Yourself Better Treat yourself better by indulging in a self-care routine. Take a long meditative bath, get in your comfortable attire, write down “how you’re feeling” and lounge in your cozy bed to read your favorite book. If you’re a movie enthusiast, pull the curtain down and flip on your room mode into a movie den to immerse in the movie. Prepare Your Favourite Food All you need is to impress yourself. Run to the kitchen, take out all the ingredients and bake while imagining you’re being filmed. Make the whole process aesthetically appealing and enjoy the baking to the fullest. Don’t forget to light up the candles before devouring your delectable cuisine.  Take Yourself For Dinner  Take yourself out for dinner. Dining alone is truly a magical experience where you don’t have to engage in conversation, you’re free to completely indulge in the flavour, aroma and aura of the restaurant.  Daniel Craig once said, “If you have the power to eat alone in a restaurant, or sit alone in a cinema, then you’ve the power to do anything you want in life”. Why not take it as a challenge? Hang Out With Friends Spend some time with your friends. Whether it be to sip coffee at an artistic cafe, to joyfully run into the rhythmic beach water slightly bathed by the evening sun or to dance out all your worries at a club. Indulge in crafting beautiful memories of friendship that can last forever.  Or Embark On A Solo Journey  What about being all wanderlusty? Pack up and head for a solo trip. Whether it be to the nearest lake or the farthest Himalayas,  it’s all about discovering oneself. Or simply grab your blanket, favorite book and basket to brim it with biscuits, cakes, and chocolates to picnic in the park. From quieting your mind to letting yourself romanticise the little things, picnicking is rejuvenating. 

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Gadget Gifts To Surprise Your Partner On Valentine’s Day!

0 Gifting each other a token of love is the inevitable part of Valentine’s Day. Isn’t it beautiful to dive into each other’s likes and dislikes to come up with thoughtful gifts that can sacredly keep the memory of love? In this modern tech-driven world where everyone is busy upgrading and scampering for the latest gadget, choosing a tech gadget for gifting is an option you’ll never regret. From Kindle Paperwhite to Nintendo Switch Lite, here is a list of useful gadgets to upgrade your love’s heart to a sea of unconditional love.  Kindle Paperwhite  If your partner is a voracious reader, surprising them with a Kindle Paperwhite will make your lover’s heart flutter. Paperwhite is comfortably larger than Kindle, and it comes with waterproof reading. This ebook reader offers the unique feature of adjusting warmth along with brightness, marvelously replicating the experience of reading an actual book. It also comes with exceptionally long battery life that can last up to 10 weeks. Rocketbook Smart Reusable Book Rocketbook is a smart notebook perfect for a partner who loves writing or journaling. This eco-friendly smart reusable notebook comes with a Pilot Frixion pen to write and a microfiber cloth to wipe clean the page after writing, thus replicating the experience of traditional writing. It also comes with the option to digitally organise and store your writings by saving them. Unlike other typical books, the paper type of this book is a dotted grid. HidrateSpark Steel Smart Water Bottle Let your partner stay hydrated with the HidrateSpark Steel Smart Water Bottle! This uniquely designed water bottle glows up in the bottom to remind one to drink water with the help of an LED Smart sensor puck. It also sends notifications on the phone as it can be connected via Bluetooth.  Another striking feature is that it can astonishingly keep drinks cold for up to 24 hours. From tracking the water intake to tailoring daily water intake goals, it paves the way for a better healthier life.  Nintendo Switch Lite This is for the one who loves beating time by immersing in games. Nintendo Switch Lite being the dedicated handheld play can be comfortably carried to anywhere they want. Though it is cheaper, it has the same incredible library as Nintendo Switch Games.  The Lite version comes in five attractive colors: blue, turquoise, coral, grey, and yellow.

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