Let’s turn on the mood lights for today; you’re going on a date with the perfect person you’ve found, but you have no idea what to wear. Here is our advice: Stop rummaging in your already messy closet and read on to figure out how to make them fall for you; find just the right aesthetics to live in their heart and soul rent-free. Your body is the canvas, and the clothes are your paintbrushes. Here are ways to paint a picture of yourself that will drive your lover to swoon over you:
Mastering the Art of Colors
Sometimes it doesn’t matter what you wear, whether a casual biker outfit or a formal suit, if the colors don’t match! In this dance of love, colors are the melody, and you can’t do a waltz over heavy metal. Find your blues and jazz, experiment with colors, and do your homework. Dazzle in a kaleidoscope of hues that would help you communicate not to their ears but to their heart.
Harnessing the Power of Style
If colors are the melody, then the style is the chart. It’s not just about the notes but how you play them that matters. Wear some clothes that make you pop; heck, wear a leather jacket on top to seal the deal. Dress to impress.
Find the tempo; determine the aesthetic.
To get out of the way, style, color, and aesthetics aren’t the same. If the style is the chart, the color is the melody, then the aesthetic is the tempo. To craft a perfect piece, you must play the right notes in the right order at the right speed. What are your intentions on the date? Is it an aged wine and rotisserie chicken or an excellent coffee and sandwiches downtown kind of date?
Embrace the casual: go Lo-Fi.
Of course, clothes have genres, just like music. Sometimes, playing some lo-fi beats is best to chill out and go casual. Embrace wearing baggy shirts and ripped jeans. Become down-to-earth, be yourself.
Don’t be too dependent on what you’re wearing.
Real talk? They love you for who you are, not what you wear. Remember the human; remember who you are beneath all those fancy blazers. That’s what your lover loves about you! Be confident in your skin.
Remember, the natural beauty is inside of you. How does it matter if you wear red or pink when feeling blue? Your body is your instrument; play something soothing with your outfit. Let your soul speak for you, and create a tune that defines who you are, not what you want to be.
